Many fathers are sometimes are hard on their children when they educate them. Actually there is an important message that a father wants to give to his children, especially his son.
A man is often not good at delivering the message. The message that tends to be covert sometimes make the child do not understand. But, in fact every father had prepared their own plans for their children. According to thrivingfamily there are three important messages to convey, which are:
1. A father also loves his children
Not only the mother, every father would also feel sad when their children are in the wrong path. But anyway, parents will always love their children.
As a child, we need to know that praise and rewards often uttered by a father is his best wishes, the greatest hope, and love unconditionally. Father helps us to understand the depth of his love to us, but sometimes it is difficult for a father to actually say what he wants.
2. Comfortable with yourself
Lack of attention from parents often make us into a child who is busy looking for identity. The father’s role is quite big here to help us realize the importance of self appreciation.
Some father figure, have started it by talking face to face, talking of being grateful, how should the child pursue their dreams and goals. Not only that, a father figure also help us understand skills.
Basically, a father can see two positive and negative sides of a boy. Therefore, the father will indirectly explain the capacity of our ability. This is because you can not judge yourself, someone else (the father) who judge us, so we can become one that is not easily discouraged and can respect ourselves.
3. Messages about sexuality
Speaking of sexuality is still a taboo to talk about for some people, especially among the parents to their children. Actually, sex is not a threat, but an education to meet their infancy.
Talking about sexuality is basically not talking about pornography. This is what should be ignored, and there had been a lot of boys has sexual problems. Those who are caught are usually already experience free sex and secret passions.
To clarify this sex-related issues, a father usually does a special conversation with their children. This discussion includes the truth in the understanding of sex as seen from various aspects, such as religion and marriage purposes.
These three messages are what actual want to be conveyed by a father to us. But sometimes it is difficult for a father to convey this important message. Think positive and receptive to criticisms and suggestions should be done between the two.Tagged with: father and son, father and son relationship,